{"id":358344,"date":"2017-01-09T07:43:15","date_gmt":"2017-01-09T07:43:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ghana-mma.com\/lifestyle\/2017\/01\/09\/how-to-deal-with-rude-people-who-dont-know-theyre-being-rude\/"},"modified":"2017-01-09T07:43:15","modified_gmt":"2017-01-09T07:43:15","slug":"how-to-deal-with-rude-people-who-dont-know-theyre-being-rude","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2017\/01\/09\/how-to-deal-with-rude-people-who-dont-know-theyre-being-rude\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Deal With Rude People Who Don\u2019t Know They\u2019re Being Rude"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"text\">\n<h4>KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS<\/h4>\n<p>The old adage. Responding with kindness\u00a0to disrespect is something a lot of people do. By doing this, you\u2019ll choose to respond to the rudest treatment with extreme kindness. It\u2019s a personal preference and this may not be the go-to reaction for you. But here\u2019s something to ponder \u2014 your kindness can be a teachable moment\u00a0for them. If someone is explaining something very rudely and are unaware that they are being rude, you being nice might help them realize their behavior. They might examine their own personal interactions with people, and check themselves. They might ask, why is this person so nice, let me be nice in return.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13933\" src=\"http:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/o-BLACK-PEOPLE-INTRODUCTIONS-facebook-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/o-BLACK-PEOPLE-INTRODUCTIONS-facebook-1.jpg?w=1536 1536w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/o-BLACK-PEOPLE-INTRODUCTIONS-facebook-1.jpg?resize=300%2C200 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/o-BLACK-PEOPLE-INTRODUCTIONS-facebook-1.jpg?resize=768%2C512 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/o-BLACK-PEOPLE-INTRODUCTIONS-facebook-1.jpg?resize=1024%2C683 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n<h4>WALK AWAY<\/h4>\n<p>If you feel it, or even sense a hint of someone being rude, walk away\u00a0from them. Why raise your anxiety\u00a0and subject yourself to rudeness if you have an opportunity to walk away from it? It can take a lot of courage to just up and remove yourself, but always remember you do not have to deal with it. In situations where you can\u2019t just completely leave, like at a meeting or with a classmate, make a habit of excusing yourself. When you see the person or if they ask for something.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-13935\" src=\"http:\/\/ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/02\/WomanTravel.jpg\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/WomanTravel.jpg?w=1197 1197w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/WomanTravel.jpg?resize=300%2C239 300w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/WomanTravel.jpg?resize=768%2C611 768w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/women.informationng.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/WomanTravel.jpg?resize=1024%2C814 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n<h4>TELL THEM THEY ARE RUDE<\/h4>\n<p>Sometimes none of the above can work for you, and you have to tell someone they are being rude\u00a0in order to feel some sort of closure. I\u2019m personally like this. If someone bumps into you or steps on your foot and you\u2019re bothered by it, tell them if you have to. Because they probably don\u2019t know they\u2019re being disrespectful or nasty. And there are people out there that might feel genuinely remorseful to learn they offended someone by something they did. This is not to advise you to start a confrontation, but as we\u2019re on the subject of people being unknowingly rude, you have to.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><h3 class=\"jp-relatedposts-headline\"><em>Related<\/em><\/h3>\n<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>KILL THEM WITH KINDNESS The old adage. Responding with kindness\u00a0to disrespect is something a lot of people do. By doing this, you\u2019ll choose to respond to the rudest treatment with extreme kindness. It\u2019s a personal preference and this may not be the go-to reaction for you. 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