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It may seem like there are a hundred complicated reasons why infidelity becomes an issue in so many marriages, but according to preacher and author DeVon Franklin, one big reason is actually quite simple. And it begins, he says, before a wedding even takes place.<\/p>\n
As DeVon explains during\u00a0a conversation with Oprah\u00a0about relationships, s*x and celibacy on \u201cSuperSoul Sunday,\u201d men, in particular, have been conditioned to give in to their s*x drive. The result, DeVon says in the interview and in his book,\u00a0\u201cThe Wait,\u201d\u00a0is typically recklessness and chaos.<\/p>\n
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\u201cAs men, we\u2019re raised in a culture where that type of behavior is almost encouraged and rewarded,\u201d he says. \u201cSometimes, we find validation as men in that type of behavior, but it\u2019s the same behavior that suffocates and kills us.\u201d<\/p>\n
DeVon \u2015 who together with his wife, Meagan Good,\u00a0chose to remain celibate\u00a0until their 2012 marriage \u2015 also says that one\u2019s s*xual behaviors before marriage are the same behaviors that will exist within the marriage as well.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf I had no discipline in s*x before marriage, I will have no discipline in s*x after marriage,\u201d DeVon states simply. \u201cAnd we wonder why most marriages end and why infidelity is so high.\u201d<\/p>\n
Too often, he adds, people assume (or hope) that the words \u201cI do\u201d are some sort of magic spell.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s not like [when] you get married and you say, \u2018I do,\u2019 everything I practiced is out the window,\u201d DeVon points out. \u201cNo. What you have practiced, what habits you have, they\u2019re still there.\u201d<\/p>\n
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Source: Huffingtonpost<\/p>\n
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