Dealing with a needy girlfriend

Has your girlfriend gotten a little clingy recently?  Is she driving you nuts?  If she is . . . DUMP HER!  Just kidding.  But if she IS acting needy, it might just mean that she’s not feeling secure in the relationship.

Here are 5 things you can do to make her feel MORE secure, and hopefully get her off your back . . .

1.)  Do what you say you’ll do.  When you first started dating, you probably always called when you said you would.  But after a while, small things like that start to slip.  And it’s a good bet your girlfriend thinks it means you’re less interested in her.

So if you tell her you’re going to text her on your way home from work, don’t let it slip your mind.  Because she’ll feel like SHE’S slipping your mind.

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2.)  Randomly clue her in.  Tell her what you’re thinking at random times.  If you had a dream about her last night, tell her.  If you’re thinking about her instead of working on a report for work, send her an e-mail saying so.

You don’t have to do it all the time.  But random reminders that you’re thinking of her will do wonders for how secure she feels in the relationship.

3.)  Prove you’re observant.  Women want you to notice things.  And maybe you usually do, but you just don’t bother to SAY you noticed.  So if you see that she’s wearing one of her favorite things, remind her how sexy she looks.

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