Tabloid News of Friday, 20 February 2015
A UK-based Nigerian pastor of Complete in Christ Church (CICC), Pastor Olugbenga Oladejo has warned married couples against unholy sexual acts.
In a video released months ago, he claimed he saw people being punished in hell for immoral and unholy sexual acts that include oral sex, masturbation, Blow Jobs, acts of bondage and positions like ‘doggy’ and ‘cowgirl’.
“The Lord told Pastor Oladejo that His children are confused, so they must be warned about these sins that are taking them to hell, so they will not perish. He visually showed him these people’s sins on the “judgment screen” and audibly warned against married couples masturbating on their beds, looking at pornography, oral sex, trying different styles of sexual intercourse to “spice it up,” such as “doggie style” penetration from behind, and various positions, including the wife on top (e.g., so-called “rocking horse,” “cowboy,” or “cowgirl” positions), and hanging your wife (a type of domination and bondage position, involving tying her down, intended to simulate rape). He said the only position that is holy in God’s sight is the face-to-face position with the husband on top.”
On Missionary as the Only Holy Position
It is well known what the “missionary position” is and why it is called that, for the reason this pastor explained. Missionaries of old who taught their converts about true holiness would teach them that in the marriage bed, face to face with the husband on top is the only position that God has sanctioned. That is a landmarker or boundary stone that was laid by people before this evil generation was born that you and I who live today are a part of. That was a boundary stone. We have moved that stone, so we could try new things to fulfill our lusts.”
The Scriptures the Lord gave the pastor were first of all Isaiah 33:14, which says: “The sinners in Zion are terrified; trembling grips the godless: ‘Who of us can dwell with the consuming fire? Who of us can dwell with everlasting burning?’” He said that hell is so terrible that once you see it, you will not ask any questions. If they told you to stand up for the rest of your life, you would never want to sit down again, if it meant you would avoid going to that place for eternity.
The second Scripture is Isaiah 24:4-5, which says, “The land suffers for the sins of its people. The earth languishes, the crops wither, the skies refuse their rain. The land is defiled by crime; the people have twisted the laws of God and broken his everlasting commands.” The Lord said there are ordinances in the Scriptures about relations between a husband and a wife, and His children have violated these ordinances.
If you read your Bible properly, as Jesus said through this pastor to do, you will know the truth. You cannot dismiss this by saying that it is not written in the Bible how a man and his wife are to properly have sex. It is the same as smoking cigarettes. The Bible does not say smoking cigarettes is sin, but we know intuitively that it is.
Secondly, the Word teaches us that the husband is the head of the wife. “For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior.” (Eph 5:23; cf. 1 Cor 11:3).
He is supposed to love his wife as Christ loved the Church, not lust after her. He is supposed to take the lead in the relationship, including in the marital bed. His wife is not supposed to be the aggressor or the one taking the lead. She is the responder to his love.