Mistake #2 – Being Too Available For Him. Most women think that if they become really good friends with a guy they like, he’ll eventually like them enough to fall in love.
Mistake #3 – Pursuing Him. Question: What does (1) “buying him gifts,” and (2) “letting him sleep with you” have in common? Answer: They’re both signs that it’s YOU who’s pursuing him… and not the other way around. And that’s one of the biggest mistakes you can ever make! Why? Because like it or not, it’s still HIS job to pursue you, even in today’s “progressive” dating scene. Put simply, the chase brings out the BEST in him… and BEING chased brings out the WORST in him. My advice? Learn how to make him chase – and he’ll do the rest for you.
Mistake #4 – Confessing Your Feelings. If you’ve ever done this before, then there’s a reason why the relationship DIDN’T work out. And it’s the same reason I mentioned in
Mistake #3. Mistake #5 – Not Understanding Male Psychology (Or Worse, Refusing To). If this sounds a bit like your own experience, then here’s all you need to know: The things we want men to do for us… are NOT the same things they want us to do for them. In other words, it’s not about what you do for him. It’s about how you make them FEEL. And if you want them to love you forever, you have to know how to make them FEEL totally, completely, hopelessly in love with you.
Mistake #6 – Thinking It’s A Game Of Luck. Think about your girlfriends who are now in happy, successful marriages. You may notice that they’re not just successful in love – they also have great careers, social lives, and so on. Why are they so successful, and you aren’t? If you think they just “got lucky,” then be careful. That’s yet another poisonous mistake that’s keeping you from finding love… and keeping love from finding you. Read this with me: Love is not a game of luck. It’s a game of skill. And that brings me to the biggest mistake of all:
Mistake #7 – Not Doing Anything About It. It’s one thing to know the mistakes you’re making… but it’s totally another thing to do something about it. And if you don’t do anything, you’ll keep making the same mistakes… and you’ll never find true love and happiness. Don’t settle for that. Take control of your love life!