Help! My Husband Hasn’t Slept With Me Since We Got Married [Advice Needed]

My husband and I were raised in conservative religious families. It was natural for us that we had to wait until after marriage to consummate our relationship. To be honest, we never even kissed or talked about s*x while going out.


Four months into our married life, I’m still a virgin. We get along greatly, but I love my man and would very much like to go “all the way”. But every time I show initiative, he won’t even allow me to take off my underwear. All we do is engage in petting and some sort of foreplay, and sometimes he asks me to satisfy him orally.

I’ve tried talking to him about this, as we’re both grown-ups and in a loving (oh, I hope so!) relationship, we shouldn’t be ashamed of discussing such things.

Nothing works.

I think about it a lot. Actually, I’ve started wondering if he is suppressing some homosexual urges and married me as a “cover”. But he was so caring and sweet when we dated. What may be wrong with him? Am I too pressing? Can I do anything about this?