You have been married to her and yes, you had great s*x. Lately, your wife is never in the mood. You have tried everything from seemingly endless foreplay to jumping her bones Tarzan-style, and nothing is working.
I hate to break it to you, but in the absence of her having a serious medical condition, this generally means that your marriage is in serious trouble or may even be ending. Think I’m jumping the gun a tad? Read on to discover the major reasons why women stop having s*x and see what I mean.
1. She is angry at you
Most women cannot be intimate with a man they are angry with. And, unfortunately for you, many women bottle up their resentment, instead of simply letting you know when you’ve done something that upsets them. This means that your woman might be stark raving mad at you, yet you haven’t the slightest clue that you’ve done anything wrong.
Solution: Talk to her and calmly ask her if you’ve done anything that has upset her lately. If she quickly says “no,” and tries to change the subject, ask her again and encourage her to be honest with you. It’s possible that after she gets what’s bothering her off her chest, you two can have a mind-blowing round of make-up s*x.
2. She’s overwhelmed
Maybe your woman isn’t interested in s*x because she is just overwhelmed with obligations lately. Between her work, workouts, night classes, family dinners, drinks with friends, cleaning the apartment, and cooking you dinner, it’s a miracle that her head hasn’t spun off.
Solution: When she gets home tonight, offer to help ease her load by cooking her dinner and doing the dishes. And tell her that she isn’t allowed to do anything but sip a glass of wine and relax. I guarantee that she’ll feel so loved and appreciated that she’ll want to do anything to please you in return.
3- She’s doesn’t like s*x
To be blunt, some women just don’t like s*x. Such women have s*x with a guy in the beginning of the relationship to “land him,” but once they have him where they want him, they don’t feel that they have to have s*x with him anymore. For women such as these, s*x is a weapon they use to “reel in” men, and not a fun activity they enjoy.
Solution: Find out if she had bad s*xual experiences in the past that have made her dislike s*x. If so, why don’t you try to change her mind about it, and show her how great it can be?