[Advice Needed] She Would Not Have s*x With Me, She Would Not Allow Me Get It Elsewhere. What Do I Do?

Dear Tee,
My fiance is a virgin. She does not want to have s*x now until we are married. I asked her to let me get s*x from another girl, but she threatens to break the relationship if I do that. I don’t know what to do now because I love her so much, I don’t want to lose her, but I also crave for s*x.


Dear A,
If your fiancee wished to sleep with another man simply because you are not ready to have s*x with her, how would you feel? Think about this. You said you love her, then I think you should also respect her…and one way to do that is standing with her alone and not cheat on her with another girl. Put your mind off s*x for now and put your energy into other things that are positive and would make you a better person. You should also endeavour to make the whole process fast, so that you can wife her and enjoy that which you crave for…..*lol*
All the best,

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