She was my childhood friend and yes, we were in love. After I went for service, I met another girl whom I fell in love with. I don’t know what to do as the girl’s parents are waiting for me to come and pay her bride price and marry her. I don’t love her again. What should I do?
If you feel you are not in love with the first girl again, you should let her know about it. I think it is healthy to marry who you think you really want. You should not marry because of what others think about you. You know what you want, go for it! Inform the first girl that you are not in love with her any longer, it would hurt her, but yes, it is better to hurt someone with the truth than to comfort them with lies.
All the best,
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