{"id":409077,"date":"2011-04-30T00:43:33","date_gmt":"2011-04-30T00:43:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ghanamma.net\/2011\/04\/30\/what-ashley-nwosu-told-me-%e2%80%93-grace-late-actor%e2%80%99s-wife\/"},"modified":"2011-04-30T00:43:33","modified_gmt":"2011-04-30T00:43:33","slug":"what-ashley-nwosu-told-me-grace-late-actors-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2011\/04\/30\/what-ashley-nwosu-told-me-grace-late-actors-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"What Ashley Nwosu told me \u2013 Grace, late actor\u2019s wife"},"content":{"rendered":"
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BY BENJAMIN NJOKU
Ashley Nwosu died last Wednesday after he fell into coma at the Military Hospital, Yaba, where he was being\u00a0 treated for severe liver problems. Showtime Celebrity visited the Victoria Island, Lagos home of the\u00a0 veteran actor\u00a0 during the week, where his Rivers State born wife, Grace Iberie Nwosu in her grief narrates the story of her last days with Ashley.<\/p>\n

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Late actor Ashley Nwosu and his loving wife, Grace<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Madam, we commiserate with your family over the death of your husband. What actually happened to him?
He was sick for about two weeks and when his condition was getting out of hand, we rushed him to the Military hospital in Yaba. At the hospital, he was diagnosed with liver related problem\u00a0 which he tried to battle for two weeks before he later died.<\/p>\n

Even though\u00a0 his doctors told us that we came to the hospital a bit late. Initially, he\u00a0 didn\u2019t know he had a liver problem though he noticed he was having indigestion.<\/p>\n

That was what brought us to the hospital, and at the end of the third day of his admission, after the results of\u00a0 all the tests conducted on him were out, it was discovered that his liver had damaged badly.
At first, he was responding to treatment, but after a while, we went into coma and he didn\u2019t come out of it.
Are you saying he didn\u2019t notice the symptoms on time?<\/p>\n

The symptom he noticed was indigestion; he was passing out the food that he consumed un-digested. When we noticed this development, we raised alarm as we rushed him to the hospital where he was given series of drugs to no avail.<\/p>\n

How long have been married to him?<\/p>\n

We have been married for twenty five years now. And we are blessed with our loving daughters. To God be the glory.<\/p>\n

All these years you have lived with him, how would you describe Ashley?<\/p>\n

He was a perfect husband, caring and loving ; He was everything to me, we never had any moment of disagreement that warranted us to bring a third party into our family.<\/p>\n

Quite well, we had our disagreements as human beings, but it wasn\u2019t to the extend of inviting a third party to settle our scores. And while the disagreements lasted, he would call me about two hundred times per day to ask how I was faring, just to make up for the face-off.\u00a0 He was everything, a good husband and a good father to our children. I would miss him.<\/p>\n

At the time, it was obvious that he was going to give up the ghost, how did you feel?<\/p>\n

As God wants it. It\u2019s just that I held him in my arms that early morning when he gave up the ghost.\u00a0 Throughout the period of his illness, I was sleeping in the hospital with him. My daughter would come to the hospital in the morning to look after him, while I go to work. In the evening, I would return to take over from her.<\/p>\n

At a point, when he became weak and unable to stand on his feet again, I would clean and feed him. Few days later, he went into coma and couldn\u2019t take in food any longer. It was a trial period for me. The Doctors at the Military hospital did all they could to save him, but it\u2019s just that it was too late.<\/p>\n

How is life going to be without him around you?<\/p>\n

As you rightly said, \u2018God gives and God takes.\u201d If God has not willed it, he wouldn\u2019t have died. It\u2019s the will of God, and He alone, will chart our course. We are going to depend solely on Him. He said, \u201c He is the husband to the widow.\u201d<\/p>\n

He is now my husband, I believe that he would take of me and my children that he left behind. The vacuum that had been created by Ashley\u2019s death, God will fill it for us.<\/p>\n

What was his last words to you?<\/p>\n

Before he fell\u00a0 into coma, he told me how he was passing through a gate that was in front of him. I rebuked him, saying that there was no gate here. Then, he asked me to move his sickbed closer to the window, where he would be able to hear what they were telling him. At that point, I started praying for him.<\/p>\n

That same day, our pastor came to pray for him, and he told the pastor that a beautiful room had been prepared for him. The pastor was agitated as he refused to tell me what he told him.<\/p>\n

I believe, it was the will of God and he has gone to rest in the bosom of the Lord. We are not going to express sorrow like people who doesn\u2019t have hope because we know we are going to meet him again in the bosom of the Lord.<\/p>\n

What are you going to miss about him?<\/p>\n

A lot, he virtually run the home. He knows where everything is kept in the our house. He keeps the house clean because, while he lived\u00a0 he was a clean man.\u00a0 I\u2019m a bit careless and I don\u2019t have time. That aspect , I\u2019m going to really miss him, and also,\u00a0 the caring and love he showered on his children.<\/p>\n

While he lived, and made his mark in Nollywood, were you at any time agitated whenever you watched his movies?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t really feel anything. I see him as my husband in real life, and on television,\u00a0 as an actor.\u00a0 I don\u2019t really believe he was the person acting the role, especially when he had to kiss on screen,\u00a0 and had romantic affairs with the opposite sex.\u00a0 I would tell him, this is not you, but somebody else, and we would laugh over it.<\/p>\n

What attracted you to Ashley?<\/p>\n

It was his strong will. He saw me at a time, he said he was looking for a wife. It was just miraculous, we had met briefly somewhere, and I had forgotten everything about him.<\/p>\n

Co-occidentally, my friend\u2019s fianc\u00e9\u00a0 brought him to our house. He has an enviable sense of homour.
I first met him in 1984, we boarded the same taxi and he offered to pay for my fare. He gave the driver N5 and got a change of N3. Instead of keeping the change, he generously dashed me N1, and said , he would keep the rest.<\/p>\n

I wondered how a man of his calibre would dash a lady N1. It was funny, but that was what attracted me to him. He had a caring attitude and he does not pretend.\u00a0 Then, he had not started making a career in acting, rather he was into modelling and shooting of TV commercials.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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