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Empress Njamah<\/figcaption><\/figure>
\nEmpress Njamah\u2019s name is synonymous with controversies. Despite this, she has held her head high and walked tall. In this interview with \u2019Nonye Ben-Nwankwo, the actress talks about her career and her relationship with her ex-boyfriend and singer, Timaya
\nWe learn you are now a make-up artiste. How did you find yourself in this field?
\nI\u2019ve been doing this for a long time. I don\u2019t have an office yet because I do a lot of things, so I really want to be sure of what I want to open an office for. The bridal make-up comes up almost every weekend. From one job, I get another job and I get another job from that one. Bridal make-up has been very okay.
\nYou are into interior d\u00e9cor as well\u2026
\nI do that as well. I just finished working on a hotel in Calabar. It took me almost three months to complete the job.
\nBut how did you come into this line? We thought acting was your love?
\nI don\u2019t like being idle; I\u2019m always up and doing. I like to venture into a lot of things. I like to do new things. Acting is obviously in me. Acting is beautiful; it pays. But I just like to venture into a lot of things. But I love everything I do.
\nBut didn\u2019t you feel bad that you are no longer acting in movies like most of your contemporaries?
\nI really don\u2019t have a problem with that. Acting is not what you can retire from. Acting is always there for any good actor. I just finished a job, which would be premiered in the US and Canada. I would rather be into one beautiful big project, where you can demonstrate your talent. I don\u2019t want to continue doing this home video thing; I want to do movies. I\u2019m not a square peg in a round hole. Most people who know me also know I\u2019m good, I\u2019m okay. I\u2019ve three scripts right now. Each time I get scripts, my brothers and I talk about them.
\nSome people might say you went off the screen because the scripts weren\u2019t coming any longer.
\nNot at all! It is not true. I was in Germany for about five months. I was also in the UK for some period of time doing some things I don\u2019t want to talk about right now. I\u2019ve been okay with what I\u2019ve been doing. I shot a movie late last year. I was in Owerri. Mike Ezuruonye was also in the movie. I did the movie because it was so challenging. We rehearsed with real guns in the movie. It is not the usual kind of movie we are used to everyday.
\nTell us what it is like being in a family of actors.
\nIt is just like asking me how it is being in a family of doctors. There is nothing wrong with acting or engineering. It is fun and interesting. It is something we can all sit down and talk about. It helps to have a brother who does the same thing that you do. We learn from each other.
\nHow did your mother take it back then when three of her children decided to go into the movies?
\nShe took it like most other mothers would have taken it. But I just can\u2019t stop thanking my family. My mum has been encouraging. Sometimes exposure matters a lot. My father wasn\u2019t in support of it at the beginning. But with the help of my mother, we were able to make him understand that this was my dream.
\nMy father watched my first movie from the beginning to the end. He didn\u2019t say a word that night; I was scared. I couldn\u2019t sleep. My father was very strict. In the morning, he came to my room and told me the movie was okay. He advised me on how the industry was going to be. And in fact, what he said was what I eventually saw. He told me I was going to get bad publicity; people would live my life for me and all that. There is nothing I do that will not be in the papers.
\nWas it because your late father told you about what you are going to face in this industry that made you develop thick skin over the things that had been said and written about you?
\nI would say so. I saw it coming; I was told about it. My brothers were in it before me. We read stuff about them and we would come home and laugh about them. If my father hadn\u2019t prepared my mind and if my brothers weren\u2019t in the industry, I probably would have broken down since.
\nSo you have not broken down with all the scandals?
\nAt some time, I broke down. No matter what you have been told even before you got into the industry, some things they say about you would really make you break down.
\nCould it be that the negative publicity affected your career?
\nThe truth of the matter is that whether you do anything or not, people will definitely talk about you. But if you are not important, people will not talk about you. If you believe in yourself and you know that what they are saying is not what or who you are, you know where you are going and you put your knees on the ground and ask the good Lord to direct you, there is no way you will not prosper. If you know the family you come from and what you stand for, you will go places. God has always answered me. I don\u2019t have to build mansions, but I am very comfortable. I can do anything I want to do in any country I go to. A lot of people crave that kind of opportunity. I don\u2019t live a pretentious life. I don\u2019t have friends. I just hold on to God. Ever since I have been in a good relationship with my God, it has been okay for me.
\nWe learnt you are dating one Lagos big boy who even sponsored your birthday bash last year.
\nOh. You mean Dandooku? I can still call him now and put him on speaker phone and ask him if he is my boyfriend so you know the truth. When I read that story, I called him up and told him I\u2019ve made him a star overnight. I say this and God is my witness: no man has ever sponsored my birthday. I don\u2019t go to clubs; I\u2019m allergic to cigarette. My birthday is November 17. But from the 10th, people were already calling me and asking me the venue of the bash. My party is really very big because a lot of celebrities usually attend. It is more like a carnival. No man has ever sponsored it. I always look forward to my birthday. I get to meet people and have fun.
\nSo why did people say he sponsored the party?
\nI don\u2019t know. But as I was about to cut my cake last year, he sprayed some bills on me. I was shocked to hear he sponsored my birthday. Dan is my friend. He is also a friend to so many celebrities.
\nWho then are you dating?
\nChrist! It is not about who I am dating. To me, I don\u2019t think it is right to go to the papers and say who I am dating and the next minute, the relationship is off. It is sad. Men can do it and go away with it. I\u2019ll not do something like that. The important thing is when I give you my wedding invitation.
\nTimaya said one of his greatest regrets was having you as his girlfriend. Did you hurt him that much for him to have said that?
\nAh! Empress! Seriously, I told myself that I wasn\u2019t going to talk about this in the papers because I\u2019ve learnt a lot. I\u2019ve learnt that being good is not really a good thing in this country. Trying to help people is not a good thing too. Whatever you do, people will try to criticise you. I\u2019ve always been a good person. Apart from the fact that people are not blind, apart from the fact that people are not dumb to know the truth, I don\u2019t have to go to the papers to justify what happened in that relationship. But I\u2019ve been in the spotlight before he ever thought of getting there. People have always known me for being nice. I hate proud people; so, I will not boast about things I did for people. It is so glaring who should really go to the papers and say the relationship was a mistake. I don\u2019t want to criticise anybody. I don\u2019t want to talk about it. I still give God the glory. Without events, there won\u2019t be history. It has made me not to trust people or live my life for them.
\nWe learnt you wanted to sue him.
\nWe had a case recently and people said I sued Timaya for an X amount of money. Obviously, money is not my problem. I started making money long before Timaya ever thought of seeing millions. I just did what I had to do. Let me give you a hint. We had some issues and I basically avoided this same person for close to two years. I had my reasons. He was somebody I was close to for a period of time and I know what he can or can\u2019t do. So, I avoided him. I will just say that Timaya was obsessed with me. He saw me driving at a particular time, he overtook me, stopped in front of me, pulled me off my car and beat me up. I did what I had to do. I had to go to the police and report the case with the pictures of my face swollen and all of that. I took the case very far. I had two lawyers. But for the love of Christ, I had to let the case go. I\u2019ve been in this business for a long time. If I go to the papers, people might say Empress wants attention. How can I crave attention when I\u2019ve had it for so long? He went to the papers and he got talking and talking and I was reading and laughing. I didn\u2019t say a word all through that period. The fear of God and maturity had to come in. Many journalists called me to get my comments. I always told them I didn\u2019t want to comment on the issue.
\nBut would you, like him, say you regret the relationship?
\nIt is obvious. I would have used that period of time to better other people\u2019s lives or concentrate on my job or my family. But I was living my life for people who didn\u2019t deserve it. If I had listened to one of his new tracks before I dropped that case, I don\u2019t think I would have dropped the case. I may preach about Christ and love, but I\u2019m human. There are things that you should just let go. Can you imagine the arrogance? Music is not meant for you to come out and brag about what you don\u2019t have. I respect Tuface a lot. He sings songs that make meaning. He is not bragging about what he is not and you can learn through his music. His music is inspiring. If you have a problem with someone, face the problem. Do you have to sing about it? Why not do something that people can embrace, something that can go farther than this country? Why would you waste your time and go to the studio only to come out singing about an actress? Empress was something he regretted yet he sang with my name. Empress was somebody you regretted, yet you used my brothers\u2019 names in your song. E dey pepper you for bodi so much. It is because I\u2019m or I was so important in his life. You regret Empress yet you gave me a ring? Please! It is high time we stopped talking trash. I might have said I don\u2019t want to talk about this but right now, I don\u2019t think I would mind having one on one debate with him. But then, I\u2019m too much for such. It is obvious who should regret the relationship. It is obvious who should be thankful. In life, when you achieve something you never believed you will achieve, it is like a blow to them.
\nHow did you feel when he beat you up?
\nHow else would a battered woman feel? You will feel angry and frustrated. At that point, a lot of things will go through your mind. This is not what I want to talk about in the papers. It is not a good thing for any female. I\u2019m going to do a movie on people who hit women. It is not something I want to rush into. I want to do it right.
\nHow come your brothers kept quiet if you said he beat you up?
\nMy brothers didn\u2019t keep quiet. They were not brought up to be brutal. A lot of friends wanted to fight for me. A lot of musicians were on my side. One of my brothers wanted to be confrontational. But I told them that two people can\u2019t be mad at the same time. The way we were trained is obviously different from the way some other people were trained. My brothers will always respect my feelings. John is a triple black belter. He doesn\u2019t even need to fight. He will just hit you one place and you will die. He is one of the best in karate and you know these people are trained not to get angry. He is calm.
\nWould you have married Timaya?
\nI would have made my mother the saddest woman on the face of this earth if I\u2019d married Timaya. I would have sent my mother to an early grave. She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. She is my happiness. My mother has never advised me wrongly and she has never advised me to be involved in anything evil. If I had moved out of my family house, I would have been wayward. But when you are under the umbrella of a good parent, you will hardly go astray. If I try to go astray, my mum will put me on the right track since I\u2019m still living under her roof. If I had wanted to rent my own flat, I would have rented over 100 flats.
\nBut we thought you moved into Timaya\u2019s house?
\nI didn\u2019t move into that house, I got that house. Please, I don\u2019t want to talk about it. Let\u2019s just leave that side. When I said I lived my life for some people, you should understand what I\u2019m saying. I never moved into any man\u2019s house. I\u2019ve never done that and I will never do that<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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