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I don\u2019t know your name, but I know your face. I don\u2019t know your journey, but I know where you are. I am your brother!<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
I must tell you, what you have done is so courageous. The strength that it must have taken for your 11-year-old voice to speak out about such a horrible act is something that I didn\u2019t have the strength or courage to do at that age.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
I was a very poor young black boy in New Orleans<\/em>, just a face without a name, swimming in a sea of poverty trying to survive. Forget about living, I was just trying to exist. I was enduring a lot of the same things that you\u2019ve come forward and said happened to you, and it was awful. I felt so powerless. I knew what was happening to me, but unlike you, I couldn\u2019t speak about it because no one saw me. I was invisible and my voice was inaudible.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n
\nSo to think that you, when you were only 11 years old, spoke up\u2014you are my hero! I\u2019m so proud of you. You have nothing to be ashamed of. I want you to know you didn\u2019t do anything wrong. It\u2019s not your fault. Please know that you were chosen by a monster. You didn\u2019t choose him. You didn\u2019t ask for it and, most of all, you didn\u2019t deserve it. What a huge lesson that was for me to learn. Your 11-year-old self was no match for wicked, evil tactics of this kind. You were hunted like prey. A pedophile looks for the young boys he thinks he can manipulate. The ones who have daddy or mommy issues, the ones who are broken, and the ones who are in need. But this wasn\u2019t you.<\/em><\/p>\n\n
Do you know that at the young age of 11 you had more courage than all the adults who let you down? All of the ones who didn\u2019t go to the proper authorities, all of the ones who were worried about their careers, reputations, or livelihoods. All of the ones who didn\u2019t want to get involved. Or even the ones who tried to convince your mother not to fight. You are stronger than them all! I wonder what they would have done if it were their own child.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
I had a few of those adults in my life, too. They knew and did nothing. One of them even said to me that it was my fault, because I allowed myself to spend time with the molesters. And yes, this was someone who was in power and could have called the police, but instead this person allowed this criminal to go on molesting other young boys for many years. When I did tell a family member, I wasn\u2019t believed. I suffered in silence. But not you, my young strong hero, you have done what many of us wish we could have done. You used your voice!<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
You know, now that you\u2019re older you need to be aware that the aftermath of abuse may affect you for a very long time. But that\u2019s OK; just know that the strength it took for you to talk about it then will help you get through it now. I often tell myself that if I made it through that experience as a child, then surely as a man I should be able to get past it. It still may take you a while, but that\u2019s OK too. I have known people who have gone through the same things that we have, but unfortunately they were never able to admit it, and it destroyed them. They never went for help, and they let the abuse defeat them. Some of them went to prison for crimes, some are addicted to drugs, and some have even committed suicide. I know that none of these things will happen to you. You are too strong for that!<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
No matter what happens next, just know that the hardest part is over. I wish the coward and very sick individual who hurt you would have the courage to admit his wrong and not put you through a trial. But he will most likely profess his innocence until the bitter end. And probably, all the while, yelling at the top of his lungs about all he has done to help troubled young boys.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
You may have to go through with that trial, and you may feel all alone when you\u2019re on that witness stand, but just know that there are millions of young boys and grown men who are standing with you\u2014including me. If every man who has ever been molested would speak up, you would see that we\u2019re all around you. You may not know all of our faces and names, but my prayer is that you feel our strength holding you up. You will get through this; you\u2019ve already endured the worst part at age 11. Now fight on, my young friend, fight on! We are all with you.<\/em><\/p>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
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This entire situation is such a sad and disgusting one…any way you cut it.\u00a0 Your thoughts?<\/p>\n
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