Both women and men have motives in everything they do. Only difference
is that a women’s motives are much harder to figure out, although not
impossible. They do leave enough clues for you to figure out. Their
body language, the questions they ask, and their actions all form clues
to what they are after.
It may be for money. You’ll quickly notice this if she expects you to
pay for everything and never offers to split any bills and she doesn’t
take the opportunity to also pay for you at times. Questions she asks
such as what you do, the house you live in, and the car you drive,
these are definite signs that she is in it for the money.
Other
women may be in it for the sex, they just want to get laid. And you
will be able to pick this up through their actions. Sexually
adventurous women are much more aggressive in their actions such as
approaching you very closely on the dance floor, wrapping their arms
around you etc. Although there are exceptional shy ones that are also
sexually active and are really just waiting for the right man to sweep
them away and begin their sexual encounter and fantasy.
Women
love to talk, so you should allow them to. They are revealing
themselves to you. However, if you encounter a shy women who is more
timid, ask her questions. Men usually make the mistake of trying to
cover up complete silence by filling it up with self centered talk,
intentionally or unintentionally. Women are turned off by self
centeredness. Don’t make this mistake. There must be a balance. Try to
ask a question for every question she asks, that is best way.
Women
also act shy as they look downward, hoping the man catches them doing
so. What they are doing is really inviting us into their world. Even a
slight smile is perhaps an invitation to move forward.
It is not
only men who get nervous in front of the opposite sex. Women are
probably as or more nervous than men are. So if the woman is talking to
you, then you’ve got a chance. It’s common that if the woman is either
taken or doesn’t want to know you more, she can be quite blunt or
you’ll notice that she will find a way to get out talking to your
further.
If it’s none of these, then, go full steam ahead, she’ll want you to!
In the mean time, Good Luck!
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About The Author
Terry
Leslie is a successful and world renowned authority figure on creating
and maintaining successful relationships. A much sought after global
speaker in the areas of intimate relationships, self-improvement and
human peak potential training.
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