Non-s*xual Intimacy: 3 Reasons Husbands Should Initiate It More Often
This may be the first time you have heard the term used, but trust it is a principle that most (if not all) women embrace. It involves any kind of intimacy that isn’t centered around s*x. It can include making time to talk, cuddle, engage in fun activities together, and so on. Non-s*xual intimacy is essential in a marriage, and here are some reasons why husbands need to make it happen more often.
1. It makes her feel more valued.
If a man views his wife as just some glorified assistant, or s*x toy…he done messed up. If he creates an atmosphere that makes her feel like the only time he wants to touch her is when he wants s*x…he done messed up. The things I mentioned will make a woman feel less valued in a man’s life. That is why non-s*xual intimacy is so important.
It shows her that you enjoy her presence. It makes her feel like you hold her in higher regard. She will feel more secure, and it will pour the type of love and emotional fulfillment that she needs. When a woman starts to feel like she is just some interchangeable piece in her man’s life, that can kick open the door to plenty of issues. Make her feel valued, and give her the time and attention that truly speaks to her heart.
2. It can be great foreplay.
If You’re Her Husband, foreplay isn’t just something you do right before having s*x. It is something a husband should put into practice way in advance to assist in the s*xual build-up within his wife. Non-s*xual intimacy plays right into that approach. When a husband shows his wife that he desires her outside the bedroom, it can cause her to have a greater desire for him in the bedroom (or anywhere else they don’t mind getting down). In many cases it can really turn a woman on, and it can help eliminate any possible resentment that comes from feeling like her husband just views her as a piece of meat to poke. It will also allow her to feel more comfortable and open with her husband sexually, which is a huge key to creating great s*x for both the wife and her husband.
3. It can help you grow closer together.
When people mainly focus on s*x, it can hinder their ability to nurture a greater foundation in their relationship; the ability to enjoy each other’s presence, and be friends as well as lovers. Non-s*xual intimacy will do plenty in helping a couple bond and grow closer together. It will allow for more time to be put into getting in tune with each other, connecting on a deeper level, and growing closer together in that marriage. Because it helps in the areas of emotional and s*xual fulfillment, it will allow both parties to get what they need, and therefore create a much happier marriage. Neglecting non-s*xual intimacy can drive a huge wedge between husband and wife, and that will only lead to negativity taking over that marriage. The significance of bonding continuously in marriage is huge, and certainly not something any husband should overlook.
Non-s*xual intimacy may seem foreign to some, and there may be men that do not think it’s that important. I’m here to tell you that holding on to that perspective will likely lead you into an unhappy and unfulfilled marriage. A husband should be mindful of what his wife needs, and understand that what specifically speaks to her heart can vary from other women. So talk to her, as well as experiment with some things. See what works for her, and then keep it going. Providing a wife with non-s*xual intimacy will put a smile on her face, and in turn it will make it even easier for her to make her husband smile as well.