Posted: Friday 16th May 2014 at 10:30 am

My Husband’s Family Keep Intruding In Married Life

Good relations within a family is always a welcome thing. But to what extent should one’s immediate family control their married life (if at all)? A frustrated woman writes in, asking for advice.

8ee1images confused gal My Husband’s Family Keep Intruding In Married Life

It seems that I’m married not only to my husband, but to his whole family, too. When we were dating, I adored his relationship with his mother and siblings. They seemed to be close and supportive to each other. But, as we didn’t cohabitate prior to the marriage, I had no idea of how invasive his relatives can be.

They visit so often and stay for so long I now can say they live with us. Moreover, my husband discusses every aspect of his married life, including our s*x life, with his mother, two brothers and a sister. I know because I once overheard their conversation. His mother arranges things as she pleases in my house, and my husband often compares everything I do to how she does it. When I try to argue he either doesn’t listen or gets offended.

I’ve been married for two years, and I’m already tired. I’m not against close family ties, and I love my husband. But his family is ridiculously pressing. I’m considering gathering my belongings and leaving off to my parents’. If this doesn’t make him rethink, I might as well divorce him.

Until I take any actions, maybe you people will tell me what to do?



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