Just Say No: The 4 Types of People You Shouldn’t Date
You can avoid bad relationships simply by avoiding certain types of people .
1. Those hung up on their ex It’s hard to find someone who doesn’t have an ex-girlfriend or an ex-boyfriend or twenty. The older we get, the more likely we are to date people who have several exes, including ex-spouses. While there is nothing wrong with this – we all have a past – if they are still hung up on their ex, you’re wasting your time. People hung up on the past are much more likely to reignite an old flame than they are ignite a new one.
2. Those who are bitter and defeated We’ve all had our fair share of bad dates – perhaps we’ve dated a man who was a proud Dendrophiliac or a woman who secretly told everyone we were engaged….after our first date. The point is, we’ve all been there. Some of us have been able to get over it, others can’t help but dwell. But, dating those who fall into the latter category can be dangerous ground: people who are defeated by romance tend to find fault in everything that has to do with dating. They are unable to find happiness, and this makes you miserable in the process.
3. Those who you’re trying to fix Dating someone who you believe you can fix tends to be a common trend, but just because it’s popular, doesn’t mean it’s good…..Justin Bieber has taught us that. Trying to fix people usually doesn’t work for two reasons: 1. They are not home improvement projects and 2. They may resent you for trying to change them.
4. Those who treat you poorly Many of us have a friend or two who is with someone who treats them poorly. We might know a girl whose boyfriend is verbally abusive or a boy whose girlfriend demands she be waited on hand and foot. Unfortunately, it’s not all that rare to see a relationship where one partner treats the other badly. Yet, this kind of thing doesn’t usually end well. Often, people grow tired of being treated like crap: they move on to someone who can really make them happy. And, if the mistreatment is extreme, friends and family may even intervene and try to break the couple up thru some sort of reverseParent Trap. It’s simple really, being with someone who treats you poorly wastes your time and your heart; hence, there’s little sense in doing it.