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I’m 24 Years Old, Should I Tell My Girlfriend I’m Still A Virgin?

Men have their weaknesses and fears, too, and sometimes they are worried by the smallest...

Men have their weaknesses and fears, too, and sometimes they are worried by the smallest things. A young man has never had s*x and wonders how he should handle the matter with his soon-to-be girlfriend. 

I’m a 24-year-old guy, and I still am a virgin. I don’t think it is a bad thing that I’ve never had real, “grown-up” s*x in my life. But I’ve always been shy around the girls. My inexperience adds to the overall embarrassment.

There is a girl I like very much, she’s 22. All we did was some kissing and light petting, nothing more. She says she wants to wait a little to see where our relationship leads us. I don’t want to rush the things as well. But she has had two boyfriends before me and is no longer a virgin, as she confessed to me. I, on my part, have only kissed in the past and never had a serious girlfriend.

I try to convince myself that she will laugh the matter off when she learns about my virginity and teach me things. I hope my first experience will be with her, but what do I do? Do I tell her I’m not very experienced, or do I pretend that she’s not my first and let my instincts overtake? How do I address the issue?

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