[Advice Needed] Will He Marry Me? I Am Confused!!!
I am a young girl of 25 in love with a guy of 30, we dated for 3 years before he traveled out of the country. We do keep in touch through phone calls but my problem is that I don’t know if he wants to marry me. I have asked him about it, but he kept on telling me that if it is the will of God. So please, advise me on what to do.
I think you should ask him his plans for the future, if he mentions you as a part of his plan, then you should be rest assured. If he doesn’t, then you should ask him what he really thinks of the relationship. Some men actually date for fun – not for marriage and the earlier you discover this, the better it is for you. Don’t be desperate, don’t even talk about marriage, just ask him what plans he has for the relationship, where he sees the relationship in the next 3 or 4 years. You would know what his plans are from the kind of response he gives you. But then, be patient with him and be wise as well.
Wish you well,
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