[Advice Needed] We Had s*x , But She Would Not Date Me! Please Help!
I met this pretty girl some months back. I asked her to be my girl, she said she loves me, but she can’t date me because she has a boyfriend. Agreed! I stopped disturbing her, but to my surprise, she still comes visiting and playing around me. We even have s*x on several occasions. How do I stop her from messing around me because she is not ready to date me, and she is making me have a lesser chance of meeting other ladies.
Dear O. J.
I think you should be frank with her…. Tell her to stick to her boyfriend. I would not even advise you to date a lady who has a boyfriend, but still mess around with another guy. What is the assurance she would not mess around with another bro when you date her? Let her know you are not interested in the game she is playing. I think she wants to use you as a back-up plan in case her bf dumps her. Be firm and strict with your decision to her.
All the best,
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