Entertainment of Friday, 2 September 2016
Source: Counselor Frank Adofoli
Each person is beautiful but not everyone is able to see that; only those who are in love with you can perceive that. Many people don’t know they are beautiful because they don’t love themselves.
If you really love someone, learn to see the beauty in them, for beauty they say lies in the eyes of the beholder. Love them for how God created them but not in comparison with how others look or are.
There are plants which thrive in certain locations but don’t grow well in other locations. The fact that sugar cane grows beautifully in the coastal area doesn’t mean it will do well when moved to the desert.
Be content with what God has blessed you with for He knows what is best for you. Men, you need to know your woman is your queen, let her bloom naturally without forcing her to be like your ex or behave like someone else’s woman.
Its dangerous changing a flower God gave you into something you saw in someone else’s garden. You don’t know better than God. If you believe she is a gift from God, then you should love her and be thankful.
“For I know the plans I have for you,’ says the Lord, ‘plans for well-being and not for trouble, to give you a future and a hope” – Jeremiah 29:11 (NLV).
Loving her will make her become an angel for you. Loving her is like creating heaven for her. Not loving her is like creating a hell for her and no angel lives in hell, that’s why the bible says “Husbands, love your wives. You must love them as Christ loved the church. He gave His life for it” – Ephesians 5:25 (NLV).
Your woman becomes ten times better when she is loved right. When she is loved right, she is a happy woman, she smiles bright and her beauty comes alive. She is lovely.
Loving her means you put her first; making your arms her best place of abode, because you are there to hold her in her best, pick her when she is down, hug her tight at her weakest, comfort her in her sadness, be her smile when she in tears.
Doing the simple things for her means love to her, making time to be with her, cracking jokes for her, giving thoughtful gifts, taking a walk with her.
Most people don’t know how to love their woman because they think loving her is so hard or impossible; but the truth is, love is deaf, love doesn’t hear, love sees, you just don’t tell your woman you love her but you show it.
In conclusion “My people are destroyed because they have not learned. You were not willing to learn” – Hosea 4:6a (NLV).
Lots of people divorce their wives because they didn’t understand them, they didn’t have the patience to learn about them so they were out there busily looking for the perfect person, while their only solution was to love the imperfect person right; and this has the power to make them perfectly happy.
Please share with your friends, someone out there needs this.
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