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joy | 10/7/2012 12:07:55 AM
I support d job own but d church own I do not support, its why u find love n happiness
Dat matters.
THE BOSS | 10/7/2012 12:25:42 AM
This so called “advice” is quite shabby (if those are actually his words). It’s one thing to encourage members to intermarry within their church so that they can strengthen and increase their congregation, but emphasizing that they shouldn’t marry outside their church is a bit off/strange.
Does intermarrying within one’s church (or place of worship) guarantee happiness, Godliness and success in the marriage? Of course NOT! It’s neither a crime nor a sin to marry outside one’s worship place…this is a church after all, not a cult, so members shouldn’t be bound to marry each other just to please others.
A lot of times, it’s imposing & futile advises & mandates in worship centers (like this one) that drives people away from the church. It’s NOT a preacher, rabbi, imam, pastor or anyone else’s place in life to decide where one should marry from. Anyone who believes in God should ask God to direct his/her path in everything they do because you can meet your spouse at work, grocery store, house of worship & so on. Have a good day folks!
finky | 10/7/2012 1:56:30 AM
The boss I quite agree wit u dat anybody can marry anywhere I dnt tink daddy G O really said dis.wat I agree wit is not to marry a man dat has no job is a gud advise to all ladies cos if dey eventually marry dat home is sleepin on a bicycle n can fall anytime.
Nekky | 10/7/2012 2:49:39 AM
I agree that a lady shuld not marry a guy who has no job cos she will suffer in that marriage also I advise men to get a job no matter how little the pay is before talking of marriage
HONESTY | 10/7/2012 6:08:55 AM
Men should find something doing before they even talk about marriage. Church is not a criteria for marriage. U should rather consider if he is a born again, if u share the same faith, values and beliefs; if he had a good character, etc. U CAN MARRY IN UR CHURCH AND STILL NOT BE HAPPY.
Honesty | 10/7/2012 6:14:48 AM
I agree to the fact that Men should find something doing before they even talk about marriage. This is b’cos even if the woman endures for sometime, she may not be able to manage with u for too long.
Church is not a criteria for marriage. U should rather consider if he is a born again, if u share the same faith, values and beliefs; if he had a good character, etc. U CAN MARRY IN UR CHURCH AND STILL NOT BE HAPPY.
kc hongkong | 10/7/2012 7:37:26 AM
if i may ask is it what he say or those under him say by using his photo those pastors who have become god of their own, and where are we going from here all this is it from GOD or human pastors that call their self gods
Lizy | 10/7/2012 8:40:34 AM
Wat if ur ordain patner is nt there?that to say som pple ‘ll’ grow old nt me God forbid!!! Is true that men shld ve job b4 talkin abt marriage. U pple shld un’stand that women dnt ve church.
Chemberlyn | 10/7/2012 9:03:12 AM
Dats a gud one bt d G.O is tryin 2 sell his girls ….perhaps d girls r becomin 2 many in da church. Oya! Girls dat is over aged move 2 his church so u cn eye one brother hahahahahahahaa
Chidynma | 10/7/2012 1:15:18 PM
dat is d truth men shd get smt doin b 4 gettin married d woman is nt gonna eat sand in his house his so rite dats god daddy g.o
Princess Anilwe | 10/7/2012 1:34:49 PM |
Discussing a man of God in dis manner simply means discussing God him self. U all shld watch ur tongue, n be conciouse of what u say abt a man of God. He carry’s d grace, d oil n egually has a mantle u do nt ve. I am nt a redeemed worshipper but i most confess dat d G.O is right. Ladies in d house, i want u 2 bear witness wit dis fact,” in som churches, som brothers are anoitted 2 condem deir sisters whn dey dresses fine or make up 2 look gud”, d same broda who happened 2 be d youth leader, who usually condems sisters dat dresses courgeouse, will still be d 1st 2 marry outside his church. Nt only dt he married outside his church, but will end up Marrying a wordly SHERIKOKO whose dressing can evn send d pastor 2 hell. Aftr marryin a worldly ajibo, yet his nt fufilled wit her beauty, alws at d pastor’s door 4 councelln. But if he had search in ur church n get one, 2rully its will be so difficult 4 her 2 mess up bcos u both hear d same word evry day. A church is like a family, it’s more easy 4 one 2 tell d behaviour of his broda in d sam house than dat of an outsider, so is church. Som brodas r 2 holy 2 approach deir membrs 4 marriage but too canal 2 love an unbeliever wit ease; where then r we heading 2. Smokers n drunkers r more intrested in marring our beautiful born again sisters, while our handsom holyhost fill brodas r busy marrying prostitudes, n 2morrow u tell a sistr dat Jesus is lord! . All is nt well. The G.O was right. He’s nt forcing any one am sure, but his just been a father, also encouraging his membrs. No smoke without fire, dere must be a reason 4 his words.
Lola | 10/7/2012 11:48:18 PM
Yes princess, he just gave a fatherly advice, even in the bible Abraham told his servant not to bring Isaac his son a cananite woman but a woman from his own people, i.e people He knows.
Sam Iyke | 10/8/2012 2:02:47 AM
i doubt dat these are his words maybe it was cooked by sum1 else and if so may God have mercy on that person cos d man in question is no ordinary man of God oh. Ppl shuld stop spoiling d names of men of God oh,God said ‘touch not my annointed and do my prophets no harm. Ok where and when did he make dis statement, u ppl shuld be careful oh